Why Slow Sex is great for you and Your Sex Partner

It’s kind of funny how men think women always want hard thrusting and grinding all the time! Yes, sometimes they might want to feel your rock hard erection and fast penetration so they could feel your wholesomeness, but other times, they really want it slow so they could feel they are making love and not just digging it out with you. And believe it or not slow sex is the best sex you can ever have with your partner, why? The memory lingers…perhaps for a lifetime. You will seat and remember that beautiful windy night when you and your partner were “spooning” away in a very slow tempo, moaning and feeling each other…deeply. She probably whispered a “thank you” when both of you exhaled in ecstasy and got up early to make breakfast and serve it to you in bed! Haven’t had these feelings before? I think you should!

Let’s look at some healthy and romantic reasons why slow sex is great for you and your sex partner:

Intimacy

This is perhaps the most important reason why you should engage in slow sex at least five times a week with your partner (not too much right?). Picture this, it’s Monday and everyone is in a hurry to leave the house. After a long day at the office, you both come back home, fix your meals and head to the bedroom. While on the bed, you both decide to get a little naughty and you jump on her riding her like a rough rider? No! She will be irritated even though she won’t say it and you definitely won’t catch her looking disappointed.

Slow sex is needed at this point as an indirect way of telling her, “Baby, I know you had a stressful day, I just want to make the night better.” Trust me; she would be happy you did.

Intense Orgasms

So you’ve been trying out different methods to stop premature ejaculation. Have you tried slow sex? When you indulge in slow sex, you will be able to train yourself lasting longer in bed so that you can please your partner for a longer time. If you are able to achieve this, when you finally decide to cum, the result will be massive. You climax will be higher than it has ever been before. And you know the interesting part? Your sex partner will enjoy intense orgasm with you. Why do you think this will happen? Well, according to research studies, women take about 14 minutes before they climax as opposed to men who just need a minimum of 2. Now when you are able to hold off a while longer, you are moving closer to her and you will finally meet her halfway where both of you will experience sunshine and rainbows.

Pain Killer

Slow sex is like a soothing balm, which takes the pain, stress, and worries away. Think of it as a painkiller you would rather take after a stressful day than that drug lying in your drawer. According to Anne Sprinkle, an experienced sex educator, the body produces a compound called neuropeptides during slow sex. This compound is known to reduce pains all around the body. So maybe you will need to try it and get rid of that banging headache or waist pain.

What Every Woman Should Know About Sex Before 30

Sex is a broad topic and we learn new things about it every day. It is safe to say it is a continuous learning process which keeps changing well into your old age. For most women, especially those who lack adequate exposure, sex seems to be made for just men since they are the ones getting the awesome ejaculation and they can actually look like a bag of flour and still have sex with the hottest women.

As you grow older, you will come to see sex from a different point of view as there are things you will come to accept as well as discover. Would you rather wait till then, or do you want a heads-up? I bet you want some. Let’s delve in.

Think of Yourself as a Cleopatra in Bed

You must have heard this saying “You are what you think”. Do we have to blame the social media or magazines for displaying picture perfect models? No, I don’t think so. There are ladies that have that perfect body in reality. But so what? You do not need to be bothered about that. You just have to be content with what you have. If you are not, then save up for enhancement, if it would make you confident of yourself. The bottom line here is every man wants to ride a confident woman who would take the bulls by the horn and give him that cow girl style without minding if her boobs are literally touching her belly button. It’s your body, own it.

You need to experience more than penetrative sex

Penetrative sex is cool with all thrusting, grinding and bouncing. But, it shouldn’t be the only option when it’s time to toss your clothes aside and reveal your nakedness. Oral sex is marvelous when done professionally. Let your partner please you with his mouth, suck your clitoris and vaginal opening as well as lick you all over. Also, you can try to stimulate your clitoris with his ass too. You could find the spot between his balls and anus and rub with your wet clitoris. This is sure to send you both moan in pleasure and the next time, he will ask you to do it again. Feel free and try new sexual pleasing things. Life is too short to be stuck up in old styles and sexual technique. Find your sexual pleasure spots and show it to your partner and let him do the needful.

Concentrate on the sex not orgasms

As a woman, your orgasms are quite different from that of men. You know this, but it’s obvious they don’t as they keep asking you, “Do you cum”, “Have you cum” and stuffs like that. This makes a lot of women fake orgasms just to satisfy the curiosity of such men that they can actually “cum”. In sex, be a little selfish and make your man please you, not because you just want an intense orgasm, but because you want to be touched, romanced, appreciated, complemented and satisfied.

4 Very Powerful Love Making Techniques You Need To Know

Before we get into the 4 powerful love making techniques, I just want to point out, there are plenty more techniques that you can use. It's not very difficult to come up with, but the techniques you find here will definitely lead to some memorable and passionate love making sessions and will also create new ideas.

They aren't really related to love making positions, because if you do these techniques correctly, the mood will be so powerful, that your sex position will mean very little (the mood will be intense enough!). So let's get started:

Technique 1: Women love when you communicate them. When you use her own fantasy to get her involved, excited, and then satisfied - how can you lose?

Many women love no-touch intense orgasm whereby they have a nice climax through exciting the largest sex organ in their body - their brain. Take her through some sexual fantasies and scenarios that turn her on. Then, make it very descriptive and turn it from the past tense to what you could be doing right now. Make it real and make it NOW! Act as if you're doing it now! Take her step, by step.

Technique 2: Walk up to your partner/spouse and just kiss them out of the blue and not just a normal kiss, but a passionate kiss that you used to use when you two were madly in love. What this does is, it surprises your partner/spouse, but then arouses them to return the favor. But when they'll want to do that, you lead them on and play hard to get. This build up will eventually lead into some of the most passionate love making you'll ever encounter. It's all about the build-up.

Technique 3: This also relates to the build up, but add a few more ideas to the mix. You can rent/watch sexual videos, cuddle, play hard to get and do anything arousing that you can think of when you or your partner are in the mood, but the most important part you must remember is, to keep delaying the need to make love. This again builds up the intensity and emotions, until they explode.

Remember when you were told, not to date a certain person, or practice abstinence and you just wanted to have sex more? Well the same idea relates here. At first don't submit to your emotions, delay them! Then after doing it 3 times or more, let it out and you're guaranteed to have the time of your life (again)!

Technique 4: This love making sexual techniques is really more of an sexual moment rather than intimate, but it also works very well. This technique involves you and your partner/spouse making love in a place where it's illegal to do so. But the danger of being caught creates such excitement that the idea of disobeying rules turns you both on.

Again use the example above. When you're told not to have sex, you want to have sex more! Well when you're trying to not have sex in an area where it's not allowed, it makes you want to do it more! I'm not saying do it in public, but in an area considered public where you both let go of your worries of being caught and just let your emotions run wild!

5 Things Sex Machine Do In the Bedroom That Makes Women Addicted To Sex

In this article, you will discover five things sex machine do in the bedroom that make women addicted to sex. Copy these things bad boys do and you'll make your woman addicted to your lovemaking.

Just remember not to behave like a bad boy outside of the bedroom because they tend to treat women poorly (which are not a good thing).

So, with that little warning over, here are.

5 ways to be a sex machine in the bedroom and blow your woman's mind

1. Take Charge and Be A Real Man

Ladies like strong, sexually confident men. Bad boys are those kinds of guys.

To demonstrate to your woman that you are healthy and sexually confident, you must lead your woman in the bedroom.

Real men lead in the bedroom, whereas weak men expect their women to take the lead.

2. Use Your Voice

For women, sex is very mental. You must provide sexual stimulation to your woman's mind to satisfy her and give her intense orgasm.

To stimulate her mind in the bedroom, do what bad boys do and talk dirty.

3. Make the Sex Different Every Time

Many women end up bored of the sex that they have with their man.

That's why they often stop wanting to have sex, or they look elsewhere for it. "Yes," some women do cheat.

One thing bad boys do well is that they make the sex interesting, exciting and fun every time. They do this by making it different every time. If you want to keep your woman loyal and satisfy her, you should do the same.

4. Be Dominant

Ninety-nine percent of women are sexually submissive.

Now that you know that fact use dominance to 'blow your woman's mind' in the bedroom and get her turned on, hot and wet for you in a way you never thought possible.

Here's an example of being dominant that your woman will love (don't read this if you are easily shocked - but please carry on if you want to be a real man who can satisfy any lady in the bedroom).

- While doing your woman from behind, doggy style:

grab her hair, spank her ass and talk dirty to her.

Try saying this to her:

"Baby, you love it when I'm inside you, and I take you from behind."

If you've never done anything like this before, I fully understand that you might be a little worried about trying it, but real men take risks, and real men know how to satisfy their women. Intelligent, emotionally healthy women love it when their man is dominant. So you must BE DOMINANT in the bedroom.

5. Give Her Orgasms

30% of women have never had an orgasm.

70% of women have never had a vaginal orgasm (most women are dependent on their clitoris being stimulated for them to come).

Most men are clueless in the bedroom.

Bad boys, on the other hand, are often good on the bed because they give their women the best orgasms of their lives.

Do whatever you have to do - just make sure you are giving your woman orgasms. Your woman needs orgasms.

Use these five things that bad boys do to take your 'bedroom skills' up a notch and put a huge smile on your woman's face - she needs, craves and wants you to do all these things.

Men love women who initiate sex – 4 ways to do it

Aforementioned is a sizzling spicy topic for a lot of ladies- How to initiate sex. If you are having a lot of difficulty in this area, do not feel hopeless. You are not the only one. Most females typically wait for their man to take the lead. These days, guys are thrilled about the prospect of their woman initiating sex. I am not discussing on jumping your man's bones the minute you set eyes on him, but creatively making him understand that you want him amid the sheets. Here are some sex tips you can practice to get him to give up:

Wear skimpy lingerie with no underwear. Take your bath and put on the skimpiest lingerie you have - the kind that reveals your butt when you lean over. Spray your sweetest perfume, play your favorite slow jams or jazz, light some candles around the living room and bedroom. Pour a glassful of wine, give a deep French kiss, then let him finish the rest. He is compelled to discover that you have no underwear on. Believe me, that says it all. You won't do much after that.

Meet him in the shower - When he goes into the shower, give him some minutes' head start. Get your clothes off and join him. He will be charmingly surprised. Soap him up and let him do same for you. Stock a wet kiss on him, and you are bound to sexual stimulation parts of his body. When that occurs, he will take the lead in warming things up. Watch out so that you don't burn yourselves with the heat you will produce.

Awaken him up with a shower of kisses - Sex is extremely pleasurable in the wee hours of the day. Wake him up by kissing his neck, face, ear, chest, stomach, navel, and you identify where. Make sure you are doing it with just your skimpy underwear. Kiss him while you are rubbing against him. Men get that kind of information easily.

Give him an erotic massage - "What is an erotic massage?" maybe you'll ask. Well, an erotic massage is one where you caress your man wearing just a skimpy underwear, and your guy also putting on just his underwear or maybe not?

Use the massage oil, if massage oil is not available. Start your massage by kissing all over his back beginning from the neck to the top down to the butt and all the way to his calves. Once you've done this, you can start with the massage oil. Give him a thorough rubdown, and turn him over, if he is still awake. Straddle him, kiss his neck and chest, and give him your best French kiss. You will get yourself a stronger erection and both be on your route to intense orgasm.

Don't just stop here with these sex tips, there are more to explore and learn.

6 surefire ways to give a woman multiple screaming orgasms in bed

Whеn a wоmаn gets еxtrеmе and intense orgasm, ѕhе will lоѕе tоtаl соntrоl оf thеir physical ѕеlf. I bеliеvе thiѕ iѕ ѕоmеthing mаnу mеn wаnt tо achieve in bed. In thiѕ аrtiсlе, let mе ѕhаrе with уоu 6 mind blоwing wауѕ tо givе a wоmаn multiрlе intense orgasm in bed thаt ѕhе will nеvеr еvеr forget.

1. Make sure thаt she fееlѕ rеlаx аnd аt ease with you. Unlеѕѕ ѕhе feels comfortable with уоu, she will nоt be аblе tо enjoy thе sexual еxреriеnсе with you. Mаkе рlаnѕ tо gо on a romantic date with her аnd еngаgе her in dеер соnvеrѕаtiоn bеfоrе sex. Do whatever you саn tо mаkе hеr аt еаѕе bеfоrе рrосееding tо the bedroom.

2. Before you undrеѕѕ hеr аnd go into buѕinеѕѕ with hеr, рау close attention to hеr bоdу language аnd try to undеrѕtаnd whаt iѕ in her mind. Is ѕhе rеаdу fоr sex? Is she turned оn enough? Make sure thаt you kiѕѕ аnd touch her аll оvеr hеr bоdу tо get hеr turn оn соmрlеtеlу.

3. Take your timе with her. No wоmаn wants tо ѕее her man in a ruѕh during ѕеx. Yоu nееd to take уоur timе with hеr аnd bе раtiеnt. Dоn't gо fоr intеrсоurѕе right аwау аѕ thiѕ will juѕt turn hеr оff completely. Engage in рrоlоngеd fоrерlау whiсh iѕ аn effective trigger to gеt hеr intо mind blоwing оrgаѕm. During fоrерlау, you ѕhоuld аlѕо perform сunnilinguѕ. Mоrе than 81% оf wоmеn rеgulаrlу achieve orgasm frоm сunnilinguѕ when compared tо only 25% оf thеm from traditional penetration. Thiѕ ѕhоwѕ thаt how imроrtаnt сunnilinguѕ is.

4. Dо not соmе before her. Timing iѕ the kеу when it соmеѕ tо intercourse. Yоu ѕhоuld time уоur еntrу intо hеr ѕо аѕ tо еnѕurе that thе bоth of уоu сlimаxеѕ tоgеthеr. The lаѕt thing уоu wаnt is to соmе tоо ѕооn аnd mаkе hеr reach сlimаx herself. Stаrt off with ѕlоw thrusts bеfоrе ѕрееding uр. During intercourse, dо not lеt уоur hаndѕ rеѕt. Use one hаnd tо stimulate hеr сlitоral and thе оthеr hаnd tо stimulate sensitive аrеаѕ thаt уоu knоw оf on her. Thе idea iѕ tо make hеr fееl multiрlе ѕеnѕаtiоnѕ аt one timе which inсrеаѕе the сhаnсе of hеr rеасhing mоrе thаn 1 сlimаx.

5. Clitоriѕ аnd G-Spot Stimulаtiоn, аlѕо knоwn аѕ Dual Stimulation. In dual sexual stimulation, рut bоth your tоnguе аnd fingеr tо wоrk. Pеrfоrm cunnilingus with уоur tоnguе while using уоur ѕраrе fingеrѕ to ѕtimulаtе thе innеr wаll of hеr vаginа. Trу to lосаtе hеr g-ѕроt with your fingеrѕ. Onсе уоu hаvе fоund it, аррlу соnѕiѕtеnt pressure tо ѕtimulаtе it. Tаkе note thаt thе g-spot rеасtѕ to pressure. Bу ѕimрlу tоuсhing thе g-spot, it iѕ vеrу diffiсult tо givе уоur woman a g-spot оrgаѕm.

6. Dоn't let уоur hands rеѕt. There iѕ a rеаѕоn why уоur hаndѕ are frее during intеrсоurѕе. If уоu wаnt to please your wоmаn in bed, you must knоw hоw to mаkе full uѕе оf уоur ѕраrе hands during intеrсоurѕе. During intеrсоurѕе, ѕtimulаtе hеr clitoris with оnе hand and uѕе thе оthеr hаnd tо ѕtimulаtе hеr brеаѕtѕ or аnу other sensitive areas уоu know оf on hеr. Thе idea is tо make hеr feel multiple sensations at the same timе, whiсh will grеаtlу increase thе chance оf hеr rеасhing multiрlе mind blоwing оrgаѕmѕ.

Thеrе is аnоthеr tесhniԛuе that will guаrаntее tо bring a wоmаn tо orgasm. Cunnilinguѕ (oral sex for wоmеn) iѕ thе single bеѕt ѕеxuаl асtivitу that mоѕt women crave for. Mоrе thаn 81% of women regularly achieve orgasm frоm сunnilinguѕ whеn соmраrеd tо оnlу 25% оf them from trаditiоnаl penetration. So lеаrn hоw tо give a good сunnilinguѕ tо double уоur chance tо рlеаѕе уоur woman in bеd.


Mаintаin thе same lеvеl оf passion throughout the intercourse аnd once уоu see she shakes uncontrollably, lеt lооѕе аnd rеасh сlimаx tоgеthеr with hеr. Aftеr уоu have ejaculated you should nоt hеаd tо thе bathroom right аwау. Kiѕѕ аnd hug hеr. Tеll hеr you lоvе hеr and hоw muсh уоu have enjoyed the sexual еxреriеnсе.

A Few Things You Should know About Anal Sex

There are many myths and delusions associated to anal sex and that’s why it is a good idea to learn more about this type of sexual intercourse. These tips will help you learn the experience and protect yourself from injuries. It will improve sexual health, make sex life more and more interesting.

Anal sex is not actually painful, but only if it is practiced in the right way

Since the anus itself has a huge number of nerve endings, due to improper treating it can be a source of pain. However, if it is performed right it can bring great pleasures. When it comes to penetration, anal muscles contact in a way like they are creating resistance. The pain will occur only when the partners don’t wait for these muscles to relax. If they are relaxed and if they use lubricants, the penetration will be painless.

Anal penetration is the least practiced form of anal sex

There are many ways in which we can experience anal pleasure. According to many people, the most practiced form is caressing the anus during masturbation, vaginal or oral sex. Some people enjoy feeling the fingers, while others prefer the use of anal vibrators or plugs. Analingus is also very popular among young people.

The anus is surrounded by two muscle sphincters

The anus is surrounded by an external muscle sphincter, which can be freely relaxed or tensed by any individual and internal muscle sphincter, which is managed by the subconscious bodily reaction system. This system is responsible for things like heart rates and response to stress. This muscle can be relaxed only when our body is completely focused on having anal sex.

You can always start enjoying anal sex even if it was uncomfortable in the past

The very sexual desire to have anal sex is not necessarily a guarantee for true sexual pleasure. Chronic tension in the anus is one of the main reasons for discomfort during anal sex (constipation, hemorrhoids etc.). This tension can be removed by learning more about the anus. The most ideal opportunity to do so is during a shower or a bath through masturbation when the body is completely relaxed. In addition, deep breathing can also relax anal muscles. When an individual learns how to relax the anal muscles, anal sex becomes completely painless.

Anal stimulation can lead to intense orgasm

The truth is that only a small number of people experience orgasm during anal sex. Most often, they experience anal orgasm when they are stimulating the vagina or penis at the same time.

Anal stimulation provides different kinds of pleasure

Anal pleasure can be mental or physical in their nature. In men, a source of pleasure may be pressure on the prostate no matter if we are talking about massage with the fingers, use of vibrator or homosexual intercourse. When it comes to mental pleasures, we are talking about the excitement caused by the feeling of breaking some taboos.

Nutrition affects pleasures caused by anal sex

Nutrition can play a significant role on the way we experience anal sex. It is best to eat food that doesn’t interfere the digestive process. Otherwise, penetration can only intensify the discomfort due to the tension in the digestive system. 

Psychological treatment of sexual dysfunction

Specific treatment recommendations are treatment of sexual dysfunction. Many disorders will respond to pharmacological treatment. However, treatment of a broad range of sexual dysfunction may need more structured psychological treatment. In this form of treatment the couple is seen together whenever possible.

There are three stages:

(i) Improving communication,

(ii) Education

(iii) Graded activities’.

1 Improving communication has two main aims: (i) to help the couple to talk more freely about their problems and (ii) to increase each partner’s understanding of the wishes and feelings of the other. These aims may be appropriate to various kinds of problems. For example, a woman may believe that her partner should know instinctively how to please her during intercourse; she may then interpret his failure to please as lack of affection rather than as the result of her not communicating her wishes to him. Alternatively, the man may wish the woman to take a more active role in intercourse but be unable to say this to her. A further aim of this stage of treatment is to enable the couple to achieve a general relationship that is more affectionate and satisfying.

2 Education focuses on important aspects of the male and female sexual responses; examples are the longer time needed for a woman to reach sexual arousal, and the importance of foreplay, including clitoral stimulation, in bringing about vaginal lubrication. Suitably chosen books on sex education can reinforce the therapist’s advice. Educational counselling is often the most important part to treat erectile dysfunction, and it may need to be repeated when the couple have made some progress with the graded activities described next.

3 Graded activities begin by negotiating with the couple a mutually agreed ban on full sexual intercourse. The couple are encouraged instead to explore the pleasure that each can give the other by tender physical contact. The partners are encouraged to caress each other but not to touch the genitalia at this stage. When they can achieve caressing in a relaxed way that gives enjoyment to each partner, the next stage is genital foreplay without penetration. When genital foreplay can be enjoyed by both partners,the next stage is the resumption of full intercourse in a gradual and relaxed way, in which the partner with the greater problem sets the pace. In this stage a graduated approach starts with ‘vaginal containment’, in which the penis is inserted gradually into the vagina without thrusting movements. When this graded insertion is pleasurable for both partners, movement is introduced, usually by the woman at first. At each stage, each partner is encouraged to find out and provide what the other enjoys. The couple are advised to avoid checking their own state of sexual arousal. Such checking is common among people with sexual disorder, and has the effect of inhibiting the natural progression of sexual arousal to intense orgasm. Each partner should be encouraged to allow feelings and physical responses to develop spontaneously whilst thinking of the other person.

Hormones have no place in the treatment of sexual dysfunction except in cases where there is a primary hormonal disorder. The overall results of sex therapy are that about a third of cases have a successful outcome and another third have worthwhile improvement. Patients with low sex drive generally have a poor outcome.

What is Frigidity?

Frigidity is often described as complete absence of sexual arousal in women. These women cannot get aroused even after long and appropriate touching of the vagina. This is therefore a completely different problem than inability of achieving intense orgasm. Sexology is a relatively new science which explored sexual occurrences and sexual behavior of men and women. Every new discovery in this area is replacing old knowledge or it simply changes it. 

There are many limits that do not allow us to get completely accurate information about sexual problems. This is the reason why many researchers had different opinions about frigidity too. For example, English surgeon Acton thought that the opinion that some women don’t experience sexuality is absurd. On the other hand, Freud thought that a woman is frigid if she is unable to achieve orgasm during normal sexual intercourse. Today, frigidity is described with all the casual factors together. But how can we tell if some women is suffering from frigidity?

Some people believe that only women that don’t feel sexual arousal and don’t achieve orgasms can be called frigid. Other people think that a woman is frigid if she doesn’t feel need for sex but can achieve orgasm. Still others believe the opposite – that a woman is frigid if she does feel need for sex but has never experienced an orgasm. In other words, a strict definition of frigidity is impossible to construct, at least not in only one sentence. It is worth mentioning that some claims about female frigidity have been scientifically disproved a long time ago.

Some factors that lead to frigidity

-          Wet dreams – there are many women who believe they are frigid but they have erotic dreams and they masturbate regularly. This only means that they experience sexuality in dreams and masturbation and that’s how they release their sex drive. They are not frigid.

-          A selfish man – this type of men were used to occasional and casual sex encounters and all of a sudden they realize that their wife is sexually unresponsive. They only rely on their masculinity and think that this is all they need in order to provide pleasure to their women. They are bad husbands and bad lovers because they only think about their own needs. In other words, he just takes and gives nothing in return.

-          Feeling of guilt – Some women practice masturbation regularly but they do this with a feeling of guilt that is buried deep in the sub consciousness. These things create limitations and they cannot relax during sex. They even don’t let the partner touch them in the same way they touch themselves and become unnecessary cold.

-          Fear of unwanted pregnancy – This is one of the main reasons for temporary frigidity. Although the contraceptive methods are improved and they guarantee almost 100% protection some women are still afraid that they might end up pregnant. This feeling of fear is especially present in women that cannot use birth control pills and they consider that other methods are unreliable.