It’s kind of
funny how men think women always want hard thrusting and grinding all the time!
Yes, sometimes they might want to feel your rock hard erection and fast penetration so they could
feel your wholesomeness, but other times, they really want it slow so they
could feel they are making love and not just digging it out with you. And
believe it or not slow sex is the best sex you can ever have with your partner,
why? The memory lingers…perhaps for a lifetime. You will seat and remember that
beautiful windy night when you and your partner were “spooning” away in a very
slow tempo, moaning and feeling each other…deeply. She probably whispered a
“thank you” when both of you exhaled in ecstasy and got up early to make
breakfast and serve it to you in bed! Haven’t had these feelings before? I
think you should!
Let’s look at
some healthy and romantic reasons why slow sex is great for you and your sex partner:
Intimacy
This is perhaps
the most important reason why you should engage in slow sex at least five times
a week with your partner (not too much right?). Picture this, it’s Monday and
everyone is in a hurry to leave the house. After a long day at the office, you
both come back home, fix your meals and head to the bedroom. While on the bed,
you both decide to get a little naughty and you jump on her riding her like a
rough rider? No! She will be irritated even though she won’t say it and you
definitely won’t catch her looking disappointed.
Slow sex is
needed at this point as an indirect way of telling her, “Baby, I know you had a
stressful day, I just want to make the night better.” Trust me; she would be
happy you did.
Intense Orgasms
So you’ve been
trying out different methods to stop premature ejaculation. Have you tried
slow sex? When you indulge in slow sex, you will be able to train yourself lasting longer in bed so that you can please your partner for a longer time. If you are able
to achieve this, when you finally decide to cum, the result will be massive.
You climax will be higher than it has ever been before. And you know the
interesting part? Your sex partner will enjoy intense orgasm with you. Why do you think this will
happen? Well, according to research studies, women take about 14 minutes before
they climax as opposed to men who just need a minimum of 2. Now when you are
able to hold off a while longer, you are moving closer to her and you will
finally meet her halfway where both of you will experience sunshine and
rainbows.
Pain Killer
Slow sex is like
a soothing balm, which takes the pain, stress, and worries away. Think of it as
a painkiller you would rather take after a stressful day than that drug lying
in your drawer. According to Anne Sprinkle, an experienced sex educator, the
body produces a compound called neuropeptides during slow sex. This compound is
known to reduce pains all around the body. So maybe you will need to try it and
get rid of that banging headache or waist pain.
