Sex is a broad topic and we learn new
things about it every day. It is safe to say it is a continuous learning
process which keeps changing well into your old age. For most women, especially
those who lack adequate exposure, sex seems to be made for just men since they
are the ones getting the awesome ejaculation and they can actually look like a
bag of flour and still have sex with the hottest women.
As you grow older, you will come to see sex
from a different point of view as there are things you will come to accept as
well as discover. Would you rather wait till then, or do you want a heads-up? I
bet you want some. Let’s delve in.
Think
of Yourself as a Cleopatra in Bed
You must have heard this saying “You are
what you think”. Do we have to blame the social media or magazines for
displaying picture perfect models? No, I don’t think so. There are ladies that
have that perfect body in reality. But so what? You do not need to be bothered
about that. You just have to be content with what you have. If you are not,
then save up for enhancement, if it would make you confident of yourself. The
bottom line here is every man wants to ride a confident woman who would take
the bulls by the horn and give him that cow girl style without minding if her
boobs are literally touching her belly button. It’s your body, own it.
You
need to experience more than penetrative sex
Penetrative sex is cool with all thrusting,
grinding and bouncing. But, it shouldn’t be the only option when it’s time to
toss your clothes aside and reveal your nakedness. Oral sex is marvelous when
done professionally. Let your partner please you with his mouth, suck your
clitoris and vaginal opening as well as lick you all over. Also, you can try to
stimulate your clitoris with his ass too. You could find the spot between his
balls and anus and rub with your wet clitoris. This is sure to send you both
moan in pleasure and the next time, he will ask you to do it again. Feel free
and try new sexual pleasing things. Life is too short to be stuck up in old
styles and sexual technique. Find your sexual pleasure spots and show it to your partner and
let him do the needful.
Concentrate
on the sex not orgasms
As a woman, your orgasms are quite
different from that of men. You know this, but it’s obvious they don’t as they
keep asking you, “Do you cum”, “Have you cum” and stuffs like that. This makes
a lot of women fake orgasms just to satisfy the curiosity of such men that they
can actually “cum”. In sex, be a little selfish and make your man please you,
not because you just want an intense orgasm, but because you want to be touched,
romanced, appreciated, complemented and satisfied.