Why Slow Sex is great for you and Your Sex Partner

It’s kind of funny how men think women always want hard thrusting and grinding all the time! Yes, sometimes they might want to feel your rock hard erection and fast penetration so they could feel your wholesomeness, but other times, they really want it slow so they could feel they are making love and not just digging it out with you. And believe it or not slow sex is the best sex you can ever have with your partner, why? The memory lingers…perhaps for a lifetime. You will seat and remember that beautiful windy night when you and your partner were “spooning” away in a very slow tempo, moaning and feeling each other…deeply. She probably whispered a “thank you” when both of you exhaled in ecstasy and got up early to make breakfast and serve it to you in bed! Haven’t had these feelings before? I think you should!

Let’s look at some healthy and romantic reasons why slow sex is great for you and your sex partner:

Intimacy

This is perhaps the most important reason why you should engage in slow sex at least five times a week with your partner (not too much right?). Picture this, it’s Monday and everyone is in a hurry to leave the house. After a long day at the office, you both come back home, fix your meals and head to the bedroom. While on the bed, you both decide to get a little naughty and you jump on her riding her like a rough rider? No! She will be irritated even though she won’t say it and you definitely won’t catch her looking disappointed.

Slow sex is needed at this point as an indirect way of telling her, “Baby, I know you had a stressful day, I just want to make the night better.” Trust me; she would be happy you did.

Intense Orgasms

So you’ve been trying out different methods to stop premature ejaculation. Have you tried slow sex? When you indulge in slow sex, you will be able to train yourself lasting longer in bed so that you can please your partner for a longer time. If you are able to achieve this, when you finally decide to cum, the result will be massive. You climax will be higher than it has ever been before. And you know the interesting part? Your sex partner will enjoy intense orgasm with you. Why do you think this will happen? Well, according to research studies, women take about 14 minutes before they climax as opposed to men who just need a minimum of 2. Now when you are able to hold off a while longer, you are moving closer to her and you will finally meet her halfway where both of you will experience sunshine and rainbows.

Pain Killer

Slow sex is like a soothing balm, which takes the pain, stress, and worries away. Think of it as a painkiller you would rather take after a stressful day than that drug lying in your drawer. According to Anne Sprinkle, an experienced sex educator, the body produces a compound called neuropeptides during slow sex. This compound is known to reduce pains all around the body. So maybe you will need to try it and get rid of that banging headache or waist pain.

Why Men Have Problems For Delaying Ejaculation?

Most men cannot last long in bed because they believe that there is nothing that can be done to influence the time they last, i.e., delay ejaculation. It's really quite simple to understand that. Almost all men who cannot last long in bed assume that there is nothing they can do to delay ejaculation. 

The most common reasons we hear about why men think they cannot delay ejaculation are:

·        It's the fault of their genes, he thinks he was born that way;

·        It has always been so, therefore, it cannot change in the future;

·        The penis size is not big enough;

·        They tried to change it (in ways that made no sense), once or twice, and it did not work, so it should not be possible to change;

·        That's what their women are making it happen;

·        They are very young ... or too old;

·        They believe all men experience early ejaculation problem, so it is fine.

But the truth is ... these are all excuses to not to learn to apply the methods and proven techniques to delay ejaculation. It’s not like men who say these things are all incapable. It’s just pointing out that all this is just excuses, and you cannot make excuses nothing to believe in something that is not true.

Some people may come with complex reasoning behind these excuses (making it appear that they are valid), but later at the end of the day, they are still just excuses.

These "reasons" are just excuses given by people who are not willing to work on the resolution of their problem to delay ejaculation. For example, if you tell yourself, “I cannot last long in bed because I was born this way”, then you just give yourself a good reason not to try anything. And the big problem of these excuses is that you will never be able to stop premature ejaculation.

The only reason that people still do it (consciously or unconsciously) is what psychology calls “secondary gains”. In this case, you do not have to solve the problem, but it has a kind of “comfort” to try to believe that there is nothing you can do to delay ejaculation. That is, the fault is not yours; it's just something with destiny.

So often people feel comfortable with their excuses and it prevents them from acting. However, if you want to have an amazing sex life, where you can have fun in bed and be able to give an incredible sexual pleasure and lasting for your wife, then you have to put aside your excuses. So, do so now. Take a second of your time to ask "Why I think I am not able to delay ejaculation?"

Accept that's just an excuse and that any logical reason you gave for it has no validity (as good as it is). The excuse is not a good enough reason not to implement proven strategies that will greatly improve your sexual life.

It's time to act and learn to delay ejaculation to last longer in bed and experience the many benefits that come with it. Now, if you accepted that you can change this situation and decided to do it, but do not know what you need to do, then continue to check online (books and articles on Premature Ejaculation and Tantric Sex) and thus, you will find the path that you are looking for.

And, if you are ready to follow the steps to lasting longer in bed, congratulations, you just about to join the list of people who have had success and changed their sexual lives forever.

How to Have Longer Sex

Today we focus on how to maintain hard erection by optimizing your sexual stamina using simple exercises that will see you having longer sexual activity.

It’s true that by using creams and sprays you will add a few minutes in your sexual activity, but thing is, the above mentioned products have in the past resulted to limitations and severity. By using such products, the habit turns into an addiction and one fails to perform sexually whenever they want to have sex.

The products shouldn’t be advocated as permanent cures as they are only made to be a temporary aid which if not regulated you can suffer extremely. When it comes to curbing erectile dysfunction, below are natural ways that you can result to for maximum success…

Controlling Your Arousal to Last Longer

By teaching yourself how to be in control of your arousal, you have the chance of lasting longer while having coitus. That said however, if you want to be on top of your game, it’s important that you understand clearly what the four stages of male sex arousal are.

First let us find out what arousal is; this is the sensation that an individual experiences after becoming stimulated sexually.

By paying close attention to the ways that your body responds to and reacts to through these stages, you know graduate to knowing how to control every stage to last longer and enjoy the sexual activity all the time!

Stage One: This is the instant when your penis starts to become erect

Stage Two: This takes place when an arousal starts increasing and your erections becomes full, but you are still in full control

Stage Three: This is the point when your arousal become intense and your penis glands expand making you more sensitive and at the edge of ejaculating

Stage Four: This is the point when your nerve system topples over and causes the perennial muscles to contract and you ejaculate immediately

Now that we are all looking towards lasting longer in bed, it’s important that you master how to stretch out the four stages as long as you possibly can. If you suffer from erectile dysfunction, it means that you switch from the 1^st stage to the 4^th stage in less than two minutes.

To stop premature ejaculation and profit from sexual enhancement, you should concentrate on the 2^nd stage. Strive your best to remain at this stage for the longest time possible, when you cross over to the third stage, you will not have any room for turning back.

How Do You Survive Stage Two?

Simply keep your three elements relaxed, i.e. have your body, mind and soul very relaxed by giving more than you receive. To simplify the language, make sure that you concentrate on giving your lady friend sexual pleasure by fondling her breasts, touching her in places that make her moan.

Caress her in a way that her erogenous areas become stimulated. Take your time to study her body so that you know where the right buttons to touch are. By taking away your own focus from your genitalia, you will be able to linger in the second stage long enough to sufficiently stimulate your lady friend and both of you will enjoy the love making session!

How to be a sex machine

Ever saw the slogan of BMW? The ultimate driving machine. Here we are sharing about becoming a sex machine. I'm sure that many of you have watch those sex machine in the porn, those guys with big penis and able to fuck like a sex machine, making love for an hour. So how they did it? Well I can tell you that most of the porn star can fuck for an hour just because of the editor, they can always continue if the guy orgasm and ejaculate. What they do is just cut the ejaculation part and continue in another angle.

If you want to be a sex machine, look for a pretty girl friend! Sure you will feel high when you see your pretty girl friend in you favourite kind of lingerie. Sure you will see the trailer of Salt if you have been to the cinema lately. Saw Angelina Jolie in the trailer? Admiring her long legs and big tits? This is the kind of hot girl friend that you need. Imagine Angelina Jolie is teasing you now, how can you not become a sex machine, you can fuck her again and again without stop, your penis won't even want to stop for a rest. No idea how Angelina Jolie is looking like when she is nude? Search online now, she have been nude in a few movies, wonder she will ever do it again to show us her nude body.

Those love making scene is excited, it can help you maintain hard erection when you are looking at it. Well, while you are making love with hotties like Angelina Jolie, don't forget to think about Susan Boyle. Your cock maybe hard as rock when you are making love with pretty girl, but you may ejaculate fast as well, thinking of nude fat lady may distract you thus may lengthen your love making time. But don't take too long until you lost the energy and mood for sex.

There are a lot of little trick that you may use to help you lasting longer in bed:
1. Change position before you are going to ejaculate, but don't change it too often.
2. Hold your penis to reduce the urge, hug and kiss her during that hold then continue again after 30 seconds or a minute depend on your own preference.
3. Get her on top, this will help you to lower your sensitivity and this will help you to last longer.

These are some little tricks that I share, and there are a lot more, just check in our blog here.