Any
purveyor of sex tips will soon learn one basic fact: often couples need to
forget they're adults and add a little fun and whimsy to their sexual
escapades. Erotic games are one of the most enjoyable ways of doing this.
Sex tips recommend a variety.
Many
sex tips emphasize variety as the key to keeping a sexual relationship moving
forward, but that doesn't mean a couple has to wait until they are feeling a
bit bored with their routine to mix it up. Playing erotic games at any stage of
a relationship can generate excitement and bonding.
But
what kind of games might one choose? There is any number of options, including:
- 21 strokes. This is playing the game
of poker known as 21 or Blackjack. Players are each dealt two cards and may
then ask for more cards if they want. The purpose is to achieve 21 points or
gets as close to it without getting more than 21. In this variation, each
player gets his penis stroked or her vagina rubbed by the other partner; the
number of strokes depends on the cards they get. So if the man gets 20 and the
woman gets 21, the woman strokes his penis 20 times, and he stimulate her clitoris
21 times. This can be an exceptional game to start and guide foreplay. (Another
variation - rather than stroking, the players lick or otherwise orally gratify
their partner's organ.)
- Nude charades. There are many ways to
play nude charades, but this is a good one to try. Some classifications are
decided upon. As each class is called, then players use their partner's body to
represent an object in the class. For example, if the class is
"Fruits," the lady might take the male's penis in her hands and mime
be peeling it like a banana. The male, in turn, might fondle the woman's
breasts in such a way it will look like apples.
- 20 distracted questions. A change on the familiar
guessing game, the lady, picks a noun that falls into the category of being
either animal, mineral or vegetable. The man then asks yes-or-no questions to
ascertain what it is. The variation here is that the entire time that the male
is asking questions, his penis is being fondled and orally pleasured by the
woman. The goal is to see if he can guess the answer before he ejaculates.
Manual and oral stimulation can be given to the woman as she takes her round as
the asker.
- I spy passionately. In a game of "I
Spy," one player chooses out an object (perhaps one that is green) and
says "I spy something green." The other players will have to guess
what that something is. The rules are same here, but in this version, the
partner who is guessing has to overcome a little distraction: having a vibrator
gently run across his or her genitals. As with the other guessing game, the
goal is to make a correct guess before being sent over the edge of orgasm.
As
it’s probably clear, the range of erotic games is limited only by the
participants' imagination - and most sex tips tell us that imagination is the
key to a healthy sex life.
