Just like being
addicted to drugs, shopping, gambling or work, one might also be addicted to
sex. A sex addict’s thought is filled with sex at least 90 percent of the time.
They cannot seem to take their mind off it. They are either looking for ways to
get them or are constantly thinking of them even before they take any sex pill. This could be quite dangerous as
most sex addicts are rapists who do not mind violating an underaged child. Most
of the time, their work life might suffer because they cannot concentrate on
working. They are either daydreaming about sex, or searching for sex partners on the internet or brothels.
It is not easy
to stop this habit, especially when carried on for a long time. Most people who
have tried to often feel caged and do not experience sexual pleasure or excitement
with their chosen partners and so, they end up back to their old habit again.
It is, however, possible to treat this case through rigorous therapy and also,
commitment on the part of the addict.
Signs a sexual addict may exhibit
Note that a
sexual habit person may not come out looking all mean or evil. It could be a
gentle looking man at your office or that sweet lady that waves at you every
morning. But there are some warning signs you could notice if you are observant
enough;
A sexual addict
has no control over their sexual behaviors. They just find themselves
constantly thinking or engaging in them.
They will hide
certain sexual behavior from their partner. This could range from having a
threesome, to an orgy. They do not want to be judged or pressured to give up
their fantasies or stop their behaviors. So they do their possible best to keep
it away from their partners.
A sexual addict
will rather prefer to go to prison rather than resisting an urge to coerce or
force an underage to have sex with them. They find it hard to quit their sexual
behavior even when it is obvious it’s a source of sadness and depression to
their loved ones and people around them. They go ahead and cheat on their
partners multiple times without remorse. Even if they feel remorseful, they are
often at it again in the blink of an eye.
They would
rather spend time chasing their sexual fantasies; looking for where the next
naked party is going on, or where they can find multiple sex partners to binge
on, than spending time with family and friends. Call them selfish or self-
centered, they really don’t care.
Most sex addicts
might have lost their jobs due to sexual misconduct at work. Their names are
often associated with topics that have to deal with sexual harassment in the
workplace. They might have had a divorce due to multiple accounts of cheating
and family neglection. They might have been involved with a number of failed
relationships because they couldn’t keep their pants up. It is more like a
cycle than something that happens once or twice.
