Most men cannot
last long in bed because they believe that there is nothing that can be done to
influence the time they last, i.e., delay ejaculation. It's really quite simple
to understand that. Almost all men who cannot last long in bed assume that
there is nothing they can do to delay ejaculation.
The most common reasons we
hear about why men think they cannot delay ejaculation are:
·
It's
the fault of their genes, he thinks he was born that way;
·
It
has always been so, therefore, it cannot change in the future;
·
The
penis size is not big enough;
·
They
tried to change it (in ways that made no sense), once or twice, and it did not
work, so it should not be possible to change;
·
That's
what their women are making it happen;
·
They
are very young ... or too old;
·
They
believe all men experience early ejaculation problem, so it is fine.
But the
truth is ... these are all excuses to not to learn to apply the methods and
proven techniques to delay ejaculation. It’s not like men who say these things
are all incapable. It’s just pointing out that all this is just excuses, and
you cannot make excuses nothing to believe in something that is not true.
Some people
may come with complex reasoning behind these excuses (making it appear that
they are valid), but later at the end of the day, they are still just excuses.
These
"reasons" are just excuses given by people who are not willing to
work on the resolution of their problem to delay ejaculation. For example, if
you tell yourself, “I cannot last long in bed because I was born this way”,
then you just give yourself a good reason not to try anything. And the big
problem of these excuses is that you will never be able to stop premature ejaculation.
The only
reason that people still do it (consciously or unconsciously) is what
psychology calls “secondary gains”. In this case, you do not have to solve the
problem, but it has a kind of “comfort” to try to believe that there is nothing
you can do to delay ejaculation. That is, the fault is not yours; it's just
something with destiny.
So often
people feel comfortable with their excuses and it prevents them from acting. However,
if you want to have an amazing sex life, where you can have fun in bed and be
able to give an incredible sexual pleasure and lasting for your wife, then you have to
put aside your excuses. So, do so now. Take a second of your time to ask "Why
I think I am not able to delay ejaculation?"
Accept
that's just an excuse and that any logical reason you gave for it has no
validity (as good as it is). The excuse is not a good enough reason not to
implement proven strategies that will greatly improve your sexual life.
It's time to
act and learn to delay ejaculation to last longer in bed and experience the
many benefits that come with it. Now, if you accepted that you can change this
situation and decided to do it, but do not know what you need to do, then
continue to check online (books and articles on Premature Ejaculation and
Tantric Sex) and thus, you will find the path that you are looking for.
And, if you
are ready to follow the steps to lasting longer in bed, congratulations, you just about
to join the list of people who have had success and changed their sexual lives
forever.
