Monday, October 27, 2014
Sex on the first date and its consequences
Having sex on the first date and enjoying “night games” after which every side goes into separate ways is a dream for many men. However, it is quite different when you have sex with a girl that you have just met in a bar compared to having sex with a girl with whom you want to build a relationship. This is why many men ask themselves when is the right time to have sex?
If you really want to get involved in a serious relationship, try to avoid having sex on the first date. It is a well known fact that men like challenges, so if they get what they want quickly, chances are that they will lose interest after a while. Most women are aware of this fact and this is why they try to avoid sex at the same day (or night) when they meet their partner. If a woman thinks that some man is good for a sexual relationship she will do anything she can to keep the man interested but without going straight to the bed.
This tactic that includes a combination of dating and meetings with intention to find out something more about each other, longing and anticipation is what “works” in favor of romance relationship and simply forces us to fell in love. While men are constructing their plans to see their partner naked, they realize that the woman they have chosen is worth waiting for and worth their emotions. That’s why men should keep in mind that if some woman doesn’t want to have sex immediately that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t find that particular guy attractive. Women know that it is better to wait for a while. On the other hand, is the man continues to behave normally and patiently waits for his chance he sends a strong single that he respects that woman and at the same his sexual desire are growing stronger.
There are many men who believe that sex on the first date is great. They don’t want to be involved in sexual relationships with a woman that doesn’t suit them in bed. It is interesting that these men never ask about the woman’s previous sexual experience and the number of sex partners she had.
Long waiting is not a solution too. It is completely normal to keep things going on slowly out of respect but men cannot be too passive because these situations can send the wrong signals. The phase when people are still learning more about the other side is a phase when another person can enter the life of your potential partner so being too much passive can take things into another direction.
According to some experts the right time to have sex is the fourth date. These experts believe that this is the time when you know just enough about the other side and their interests and whether you are attracted to each other or not. Of course, you don’t have to stick to this rule but you need to make sure that you need to get things moving.