One major challenge that confronts some women in
their love relationship is how to deal with their male partners diagnosed as
being impotent. Otherwise referred to as erectile dysfunction, impotence refers
to a man’s inability to either erect or sustain penile erection that is
necessary for sexual performance. The fact that the problem is now being
diagnosed by doctors in large numbers across the world makes it very necessary
that you know how to cope just in case your partner is already diagnosed as
having the problem or just for information that can be helpful in future.
The first thing you need to realize is the fact that
your sexual life does not end when your partner is diagnosed as being impotent.
Unlike some women who start thinking of divorce, you need to start thinking of
helping your partner to cope with his condition with the aim of continuous
enjoyment of your sex life. It therefore becomes necessary to go to the root of
your partner’s erectile dysfunction problem. Going to the root of the problem
makes it possible for you to ascertain the cause of the problem of which there
are several remedies and medications your partner can use for continued
satisfactory sex performance.
Depending on your family doctor or your partner’s
personal doctor, there are a number of erectile dysfunction medications in the
market including Cialis and Levitra pills that your partner can use. Some men
have indeed used such medications to regain their sexual performance prowess.
Apart from pills, there are also injections and vacuum pumps that are effective
in combating impotence.
Apart from pills, vacuum pumps and injections, there
are several ways through which you can help your partner cope and one of these
is trying something new. This may be the right time to ramp up foreplay to
encourage your partner to get aroused in order to attain penile erection. This
is also the right time that you need to read sexy materials together as a
couple just to help your partner cope.
You need to realize that it can be very devastating
to a man when he is diagnosed as being impotent. What your partner needs at
such a time is understanding on your part and the best way to go about showing
him that you understand his condition is to take off the pressure from him.
Instead focusing on his penis, consider trying out new things such as oral sex
and using a vibrator together.
Coping with your partner’s erectile dysfunction
should not be such a difficult task. Apart from medications, equipment and
encouragement, you also have the option of letting your partner use natural
remedies that have proved effective in treating or managing the condition. It
is however important to point out that not all available remedies will do. You
first need to ascertain the cause of your partner’s impotence to enable you
choose the right remedy.
Impotent diagnosis is what every man dreads.
However, that does not mean that a man can not engage in satisfactory sex
performance. You only need to understand and communicate with your partner with
the aim of establishing the best way to handle his condition.