Monday, May 28, 2018
It’s kind of funny how men think women always want hard thrusting and grinding all the time! Yes, sometimes they might want to feel your rock hard erection and fast penetration so they could feel your wholesomeness, but other times, they really want it slow so they could feel they are making love and not just digging it out with you. And believe it or not slow sex is the best sex you can ever have with your partner, why? The memory lingers…perhaps for a lifetime. You will seat and remember that beautiful windy night when you and your partner were “spooning” away in a very slow tempo, moaning and feeling each other…deeply. She probably whispered a “thank you” when both of you exhaled in ecstasy and got up early to make breakfast and serve it to you in bed! Haven’t had these feelings before? I think you should!
Let’s look at some healthy and romantic reasons why slow sex is great for you and your sex partner:
This is perhaps the most important reason why you should engage in slow sex at least five times a week with your partner (not too much right?). Picture this, it’s Monday and everyone is in a hurry to leave the house. After a long day at the office, you both come back home, fix your meals and head to the bedroom. While on the bed, you both decide to get a little naughty and you jump on her riding her like a rough rider? No! She will be irritated even though she won’t say it and you definitely won’t catch her looking disappointed.
Slow sex is needed at this point as an indirect way of telling her, “Baby, I know you had a stressful day, I just want to make the night better.” Trust me; she would be happy you did.
So you’ve been trying out different methods to stop premature ejaculation. Have you tried slow sex? When you indulge in slow sex, you will be able to train yourself lasting longer in bed so that you can please your partner for a longer time. If you are able to achieve this, when you finally decide to cum, the result will be massive. You climax will be higher than it has ever been before. And you know the interesting part? Your sex partner will enjoy intense orgasm with you. Why do you think this will happen? Well, according to research studies, women take about 14 minutes before they climax as opposed to men who just need a minimum of 2. Now when you are able to hold off a while longer, you are moving closer to her and you will finally meet her halfway where both of you will experience sunshine and rainbows.
Slow sex is like a soothing balm, which takes the pain, stress, and worries away. Think of it as a painkiller you would rather take after a stressful day than that drug lying in your drawer. According to Anne Sprinkle, an experienced sex educator, the body produces a compound called neuropeptides during slow sex. This compound is known to reduce pains all around the body. So maybe you will need to try it and get rid of that banging headache or waist pain.
Thursday, May 10, 2018
Sex is a broad topic and we learn new things about it every day. It is safe to say it is a continuous learning process which keeps changing well into your old age. For most women, especially those who lack adequate exposure, sex seems to be made for just men since they are the ones getting the awesome ejaculation and they can actually look like a bag of flour and still have sex with the hottest women.
As you grow older, you will come to see sex from a different point of view as there are things you will come to accept as well as discover. Would you rather wait till then, or do you want a heads-up? I bet you want some. Let’s delve in.
Think of Yourself as a Cleopatra in Bed
You must have heard this saying “You are what you think”. Do we have to blame the social media or magazines for displaying picture perfect models? No, I don’t think so. There are ladies that have that perfect body in reality. But so what? You do not need to be bothered about that. You just have to be content with what you have. If you are not, then save up for enhancement, if it would make you confident of yourself. The bottom line here is every man wants to ride a confident woman who would take the bulls by the horn and give him that cow girl style without minding if her boobs are literally touching her belly button. It’s your body, own it.
You need to experience more than penetrative sex
Penetrative sex is cool with all thrusting, grinding and bouncing. But, it shouldn’t be the only option when it’s time to toss your clothes aside and reveal your nakedness. Oral sex is marvelous when done professionally. Let your partner please you with his mouth, suck your clitoris and vaginal opening as well as lick you all over. Also, you can try to stimulate your clitoris with his ass too. You could find the spot between his balls and anus and rub with your wet clitoris. This is sure to send you both moan in pleasure and the next time, he will ask you to do it again. Feel free and try new sexual pleasing things. Life is too short to be stuck up in old styles and sexual technique. Find your sexual pleasure spots and show it to your partner and let him do the needful.
Concentrate on the sex not orgasms
As a woman, your orgasms are quite different from that of men. You know this, but it’s obvious they don’t as they keep asking you, “Do you cum”, “Have you cum” and stuffs like that. This makes a lot of women fake orgasms just to satisfy the curiosity of such men that they can actually “cum”. In sex, be a little selfish and make your man please you, not because you just want an intense orgasm, but because you want to be touched, romanced, appreciated, complemented and satisfied.